tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34838586721223801242024-03-18T21:56:44.024-07:00Advice For A Broken HeartSarah Johnsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09920562391878410962noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3483858672122380124.post-73146136386282899362009-09-26T19:39:00.000-07:002009-09-26T19:48:12.487-07:00Get Guy Back – A Gals Guide to Making Up<pre style="word-wrap: break-word; white-space: pre-wrap; font-family: georgia;" mce_style="word-wrap: break-word; white-space: pre-wrap;"><b><b><a href="http://themagicofmaking-up.info/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/coversmall.jpg" mce_href="http://themagicofmaking-up.info/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/coversmall.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-10" title="coversmall" src="http://themagicofmaking-up.info/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/coversmall-150x150.jpg" mce_src="http://themagicofmaking-up.info/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/coversmall-150x150.jpg" alt="coversmall" height="86" width="86" /></a></b></b><span style="font-weight: bold;font-size:130%;" >How do you get guy back?</span> How do you convince him that what the two of you had together was special? This is your “get guy back” gal’s guide to making up.<br /><br />First of all, you have to recognize that whatever happened, <span style="font-style: italic;">you were both at fault</span>. If you cheated, he wasn’t giving you what you needed so you looked elsewhere. If he cheated, you were the one not giving what he needed. <span style="font-style: italic;">Yes, the cheater is morally culpable for the cheating</span>. The moral responsibility does not lie with the person who was cheated upon. But the fault lies in both party’s laps.<br /><br />Given that, it is important to forgive and forget. True forgiveness means that you let go of all of the anger related to the incident. You never bring it up again. You never let it cloud your relationship. If you cannot do this, you won’t get guy back for any period of time.<br /><br />If you were the person at fault, apologize – and mean it. Too many times, after people say “I’m sorry,” there’s an “Oops I did it again,” moment. <span style="font-weight: bold;">You’re not Britney Spears.</span> It’s not cute. When you say you are sorry, you have to commit to changing. Otherwise, you don’t mean it and you won’t get guy back.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Be prepared to chase him a little bit</span>. This doesn’t mean sending him hundreds of text messages or stalking him, but you have got to show him that you are still interested if you want to get guy back. You can’t expect him to come running back just because you have sent out some modest signals that you are ready to re-start the relationship. Put your ego in check and put your heart on the line.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">You may have to settle for something less than you wanted.</span> It may be that he is only ready to be friends when you want a full fledged boyfriend. It may take time to rebuild the trust. If this is the case, you need to give him the space he needs to get to know you again. Accept that you have to take what he is offering right now if you want to eventually get guy back.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Finally</span>, you have to know when to give up on the get guy back strategy. Sometimes, you just have to move on. If your boyfriend is unable to forgive you, you are in a position where the best thing you can do is move on and enter into new relationships. While this will break your heart right now, it may be the best thing that could have happened to you. Whatever went wrong in this relationship, your soul mate is still out there. <b>Get guy back may stop you from meeting him!<br /><br /><br />For the <a href="http://www.squidoo.com/Taking_steps_To_Get_Girl_Back" mce_href="http://www.squidoo.com/Taking_steps_To_Get_Girl_Back" target="_self">#1 Secret To Taking Steps To Get Girl Back, click here!</a></b><br /><br /><b><b>How do you get your ex back. What to do when she has dumped you? <a href="http://themagicofmaking-up.info/how-get-your-ex-back-what-to-do-when-shes-dumped-you/">Find out here!</a></b></b><a href="http://www.squidoo.com/Taking_steps_To_Get_Girl_Back" mce_href="http://www.squidoo.com/Taking_steps_To_Get_Girl_Back" target="_self"></a><b><br /><br />T 'Dub's' simple, down to earth step by step plan on <a href="http://millhhaus.makingup.hop.clickbank.net/" mce_href="http://millhhaus.makingup.hop.clickbank.net" target="_self">dealing with break up causes break up pain, is available here.</a><br /></b></pre>Sarah Johnsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09920562391878410962noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3483858672122380124.post-3690694188210994052009-09-24T14:15:00.000-07:002009-09-24T14:27:54.571-07:00How to Get Over Guy – The Steps for Moving On<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh3cKgfbM_K2KkOw-lhpUkXn5sfNqlkSOs0hSGmcZAk2tJzDlshMHCm8wYq9177k7-A46HDUMtwia5Y-8cZUpeOhbgy7ljm8Rl79tOCc8gJxex0IWY7i4woc3QcbbFcIIUDKO6U9hRWoA4/s1600-h/coversmall.jpg"><img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 124px; height: 172px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh3cKgfbM_K2KkOw-lhpUkXn5sfNqlkSOs0hSGmcZAk2tJzDlshMHCm8wYq9177k7-A46HDUMtwia5Y-8cZUpeOhbgy7ljm8Rl79tOCc8gJxex0IWY7i4woc3QcbbFcIIUDKO6U9hRWoA4/s200/coversmall.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5385148544483500722" border="0" /></a><span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 102, 102);font-size:130%;" >Are you having trouble get over guy?</span><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 102);"> </span><br /><br />Whether he dumped you or you broke up with him, letting go of someone who you had a close relationship is very difficult.<br /><br /><span style="font-style: italic;">There is a space in your heart as well as a space in your life that are not quickly filled with anything or anyone else.</span><br /><br /><span style="font-style: italic;">Yet, people do get over a relationship. </span><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Here are five steps to get over guy you still like.</span><br /><br /><span style="font-size:130%;"><span style="font-weight: bold;">First</span></span>, you need to let out the hurt.<br /><br />Know that it is okay to cry when you are trying to get over guy. Some people keep a journal of their experiences because writing about the pain helps.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">One thing that I have seen some people do that is very effective is to write a long letter about the relationship to their ex boyfriend. </span><br /><br />Talk about the good times and bad. Talk about the relationship and how he hurt you. Let it all out.<br /><br />When you have finished the letter, burn it. That’s right. Don’t even think about sending it to your ex. Instead, let flames consume the letter.<br /><br /><span style="font-style: italic;">That provides excellent closure to the relationship.</span><br /><br /><span style="font-size:130%;"><span style="font-weight: bold;">Next</span></span>, you have to decide that the relationship is really over.<br /><br />If you hold on to the thought that he will change and come back to you, you will never get over guy and move on.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Do something that symbolizes the finality of the end of the relationship. </span><br /><br />A good example of this is to exchange all of the personal property that you have of the other’s. Don’t even keep the oversized t-shirt of his that is so comfortable for sleeping in.<br /><br />And, if there are things to minor to exchange (like a toothbrush), throw them away. Clear your place of all of his things. It is a way of clearing him from your life.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">You need to depend on your friends through this time. </span><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;font-size:130%;" >Until</span> you meet your husband, guys will come and go, but your girlfriends are forever.<br /><br />If you have been in a hot and heavy relationship, you may have inadvertently ignored your friends for a time.<br /><br />Not only will your girls help you get over guy, but reconnecting will be good for your social life.<br /><br /><span style="font-size:130%;"><span style="font-weight: bold;">Also</span></span>, your girlfriends will have had similar experiences to your break up. Sharing their pain will help you understand that, however bad the hurt you are experiencing, others have survived and you will too.<br /><br />You will probably have extra time on your hands now that you have broken up.<br /><br />You used to spend a lot of time with your ex. Use this time productively to get over guy. <span style="font-style: italic;">Go to the gym and get your body in shape</span>. Take up a new hobby.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">One of the best things you can do during this period is to join a group or a class. </span><br /><br />Not only does a class take up the time you would have spent with your ex, but it also introduces you to a new circle of friends.<br /><span style="font-size:130%;"><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">And, that brings me to my last point</span></span>, when you want to get over guy, <span style="font-style: italic;">the best thing you can do is move on. </span><br /><br />Between your old friends, the new friends you make in your class or hobby, and the activities you do to fill up your time, you will emerge as a new person.<br /><br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 102);font-size:130%;" ><span style="font-weight: bold;">Moving on is the best way to get over guy.<br /><br /></span></span>T 'Dub's' simple, down to earth step by step plan on <a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://millhhaus.makingup.hop.clickbank.net/">how to get over a guy is available here</a><span style="font-weight: bold;">.</span><br /><br /><a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.squidoo.com/Taking_steps_To_Get_Girl_Back">The #1 Secret! 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Do you have an empty place in your heart – and in your life – where he used to be? <span style="font-style: italic;">Here are some tips and techniques to get ex boyfriend back.</span><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">First of all</span>, whatever you do, <span style="font-weight: bold;">don’t chase him.</span> This means lay off the texts, the phone calls, and the stalking. Don’t just show up where he happens to be. This stalking behavior will just turn him off. He’s got to want to come back to you, not the other way around. <span style="font-size:130%;"><span style="font-weight: bold;">That’s the only way to get ex boyfriend back.</span></span><br /><br />Instead of pursuing him, start to work on you. In order to get ex boyfriend back, you need to become a more positive person. You probably have many negative emotions right now including loss and hurt.<span style="font-weight: bold;"> You need to purge these feelings and get back on a positive note.</span><br /><br />One way to do this is to write a long letter to your boyfriend talking about all of the good times you had, all of the hurts you experienced, and all of the things you wished you had told him. Once you have poured your heart out on paper, burn the letter. That’s right. Whatever you do, <span style="font-weight: bold;">DON’T SEND THE LETTER.</span> Instead, light a match and watch the flame consume the paper. <span style="font-style: italic;">This will give you some closure to that portion of the relationship.</span><br /><br />After you have burned the letter, eliminate all negativity from your life. Don’t let your girlfriends talk badly about your ex. And, to the extent possible, be positive about your whole life.<br /><br />When you do think about the relationship, remember what made it strong. Think about the good times you had. If you do occasionally talk to your ex, bring up the positive experiences and avoid fighting about the issues that ended it. <span style="font-weight: bold;">If you want to get ex boyfriend back</span>, you have to remind him what was good about the relationship.<br /><br />To this end, <span style="font-style: italic;">focus your energy working on your strengths.</span> For instance, if your boyfriend always praised you on being a good cook, take a gourmet cooking class. <span style="font-style: italic;">Get even better at the things you are good at.</span><br /><br /><span style="font-style: italic;">But don’t neglect your weaknesses either</span>. If your ex complained about how you were a slob, start picking things around the house. Make an effort to become a better person if you want to get ex boyfriend back.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Finally</span>, you should be available – to him and others. If someone asks you out on a date, accept it. You don’t have to be head over heals in love with a guy to go out to dinner with him.<br /><br /><span style="font-style: italic;">As your ex sees you as a desirable catch,</span> he’s going to want to get back into your life. 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If you truly want this to happen, you’ll probably have to make some changes. Whatever happened to cause the break up should be looked at. Was it something you did, or didn’t do? Is it something that you can still fix, or is it too late?<br /><br />If it was something you did or didn’t do and you can fix it now, then fix it. Undo something, or do something you should have done already. Apologize and make amends. This alone might not get girl back, but it’s the first step on the path to getting her back. If whatever happened can’t be fixed, then at the very least make sure she knows that you’re sorry and that you'd change what happened if you could.<br /><br />Now that you’ve moved past what caused the break up, the next step to get girl back is to make her want you back. That sounds like common sense, but so many people don’t do it. If the relationship ended with her angry, then you have to show her the you that makes her happy again. You’re going to have to be especially patient and forgiving. Be as sweet as you can possibly be when you talk to her or see her.<br /><br />Even if you’re angry at the time or you feel far from happy, at least show her the most pleasant side of yourself you can. Make her remember your good qualities and what she liked about you when you were happy. If she feels you have truly apologized for what caused the break up and she sees your sweet side again, you might be able to get girl back.<br /><br />It’s important to pay close attention when you see or talk to her. Listen carefully and don’t interrupt. Let her express herself without jumping in and telling her how she ought to feel or what she ought to do. You won’t get girl back by trying to boss her around!<br /><br />You also need to pay close attention to see if your efforts are having an effect. Sometimes you can see that she’s softening to you. She talks nicer when she sees you, and you have been seeing her more often. Maybe she even seeks you out more often than she did before. Or she seeks you out now after ignoring you for a long time. Your efforts to get girl back are working!<br /><br />Because she’s so impressed with how sweet you are, she wants to be around you more. And that only reminds her why she wanted to be with you in the first place. Pay careful attention also if you suddenly stop seeing her as much as before, or she becomes distant or angry talking when you see her. That’s a good sign that you’re pushing and she’s uncomfortable. Take a break and you’ll have a better chance to get girl back.<br /><br />T 'Dub's' simple, down to earth step by step plan on <a href="http://millhhaus.makingup.hop.clickbank.net">how to get your ex back is available here</a>.<br /><br />For more information on moving on when the relationship is over <a href="http://themagicofmaking-up.info/your-moving-on-the-break-up-is-over/">click here</a>.Sarah Johnsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09920562391878410962noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3483858672122380124.post-19440981479809569002009-09-19T00:16:00.001-07:002009-09-19T00:16:16.170-07:00m52ih8w4fjSarah Johnsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09920562391878410962noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3483858672122380124.post-32735162697548943982009-09-18T22:59:00.000-07:002009-09-18T23:04:20.315-07:00How To Get Your Ex Back (Case Study # 2)<object height="340" width="560"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/XofIY_Rg1aY&hl=en&fs=1&"><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/XofIY_Rg1aY&hl=en&fs=1&" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" height="340" width="560"></embed></object><br /><br /><br /><pre style="word-wrap: break-word; white-space: pre-wrap;" mce_style="word-wrap: break-word; white-space: pre-wrap;"><a href="http://millhhaus.makingup.hop.clickbank.net/" mce_href="http://millhhaus.makingup.hop.clickbank.net"><img title="coversmall" src="http://themagicofmaking-up.info/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/coversmall-150x150.jpg" mce_src="http://themagicofmaking-up.info/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/coversmall-150x150.jpg" alt="coversmall" height="96" width="96" /></a><b>T 'Dub's' simple, down to earth step by step plan on <a href="http://millhhaus.makingup.hop.clickbank.net/" mce_href="http://millhhaus.makingup.hop.clickbank.net" target="_self">how to get your ex back is available here.</a></b></pre>Sarah Johnsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09920562391878410962noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3483858672122380124.post-381067162153229212009-09-18T22:54:00.000-07:002009-09-18T22:59:14.330-07:00When You Have An Ex Boyfriend To Get BackIf you have an ex boyfriend to get back, you might have already tried several things to get him to come back to you. You might have begged, pleaded, promised to change your ways, and even gone so far as to break up a new relationship he might be having. It’s important to remember at all times how you appear to him. It’s going to be hard to get him back if you look childish or scheming.<br /><br />Try to think of any behaviors like that you’ve displayed since you broke up, and stop them now. Whatever you’ve been doing obviously isn’t working or you’d be back together already. If you’ve been following him around and showing up everywhere he appears out with friends or on a date, your behavior probably seems more like that of a stalker than someone who loves him. When you have an ex boyfriend to get back, things you’re doing to convince him to be with you might be the things that are keeping him away.<br /><br />Next time you end up in the same place together, whether it’s a restaurant or a club, when you walk in and see him, do acknowledge him. But instead of going up to him and demanding his attention as you might have done before, simply say hello and go about your business in another part of the room, or explain that since he’s there, you’ll leave to make him more comfortable. Be nice and polite and simply go. If nothing else, the change in your behavior will get him thinking.<br /><br />When you have an ex boyfriend to get back, doing what isn’t expected is important if you’ve been trying unsuccessfully for a while. If you’ve been calling him 10 times a day, or even 3, stop. Call when you really need something, not just to rehash why he should take you back. If you don’t have reason to call, then simply don’t call. After a week or so, give him a call just to say hello and that you were thinking about him. Ask if he’s doing all right, and a few simple questions like that.<br /><br />If he starts to sound suspicious wanting to know why you really called and acting as if all this niceness is just a prelude to your usual behavior, just assure him you called because you missed him and wanted to check in on him. Then say goodbye and end the call on a good note. When you have an ex boyfriend to get back, you want him to wonder at the end of such a conversation. He’ll wonder why you didn’t beg or plead as usual, and what’s going on.<br /><br />If you’re less comfortable with calling for such a thing, mail him a card that simply says you’re thinking about him. It’s important to give him the chance to make a move. When you have an ex boyfriend to get back, you can’t smother him with attention and affection but instead let him come after you.<br /><br /><pre style="word-wrap: break-word; white-space: pre-wrap;" mce_style="word-wrap: break-word; white-space: pre-wrap;"><a href="http://millhhaus.makingup.hop.clickbank.net/" mce_href="http://millhhaus.makingup.hop.clickbank.net"><img title="coversmall" src="http://themagicofmaking-up.info/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/coversmall-150x150.jpg" mce_src="http://themagicofmaking-up.info/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/coversmall-150x150.jpg" alt="coversmall" height="96" width="96" /></a><b>T 'Dub's' simple, down to earth step by step plan on <a href="http://millhhaus.makingup.hop.clickbank.net/" mce_href="http://millhhaus.makingup.hop.clickbank.net" target="_self">how to get your ex back is available here.</a><br /><br />For more information on how to stop divorce and save your relationship, <a href="http://themagicofmaking-up.info/stop-divorce-and-save-your-relationship/" mce_href="http://themagicofmaking-up.info/stop-divorce-and-save-your-relationship/" target="_self">click here</a>.</b><a href="http://themagicofmaking-up.info/can-you-and-your-ex-get-back-together/" mce_href="http://themagicofmaking-up.info/can-you-and-your-ex-get-back-together/" target="_self"><b><br /></b></a><br /></pre>Sarah Johnsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09920562391878410962noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3483858672122380124.post-45167526023007014072009-09-18T17:47:00.000-07:002009-09-18T18:00:23.856-07:00Stop Divorce and Save Your RelationshipIf you want to stop divorce, you have to convince the person what wants to divorce you to give the relationship another try. This isn’t always possible, but it’s absolutely necessary if you have a chance of stopping a divorce. A divorce can be stopped at virtually any stage—before it’s filed or just before it needs the final paperwork. The earlier you stop a divorce, the more likely it is that the divorce won’t be restarted, at least not anytime soon.<br /><br />So to stop a divorce, you must convince the person to give the relationship another chance. If you have been begging the other person to give you another try or pleading for them to get back together with you, stop now. This might seem counterproductive, as if now that the person has less resistance it will make it easier for them to divorce you. But your pleading probably wasn’t doing anything but convincing them that divorce is a good idea anyway. Who wants to be around someone who is behaving that way?<br /><br />If you can start acting more mature and behave in a more pleasant manner, it might surprise the other person and help stop divorce. Explain that you really don’t want the divorce and you want another chance in a calm way. The person already knows this so you screaming or carrying on won’t help your chances. Just make it clear that you’re hurt and very sad, and you really want another chance. You might be surprised how the other person reacts when you change your behavior.<br /><br />You can also show a mature side of yourself that the other person might not have seen over the last several weeks and suggest marital or couples counseling to stop divorce. Counseling has worked for million of couples and your relationship could benefit from it, too. If you can get the other person to agree to couples counseling, then you have precious time before they file for or attempt to finalize a divorce to convince them to give you and the relationship another chance.<br /><br />During counseling you’ll have the opportunity to show the person why they fell in love with you. You can remind them why you’re together in the first place. And if you can show honest effort in wanting to deal with the problems that come up during the counseling—and many probably will—that might be enough to convince the other person not only to stop divorce temporarily, but permanently.<br /><br />When you succeed and stop divorce, you must remember that the person was about to divorce you and it would be easy enough for them to change his or her mind and file for divorce later. Having already thought about divorce and maybe even having gone far enough as to file for divorce at one time makes the decision to file again easier. So be aware of the state of your relationship, and perhaps continue counseling. It’s easier to stop divorce temporarily than to have a good relationship for the long term.<br /><br /><pre style="word-wrap: break-word; white-space: pre-wrap;" mce_style="word-wrap: break-word; white-space: pre-wrap;"><a href="http://millhhaus.makingup.hop.clickbank.net/" mce_href="http://millhhaus.makingup.hop.clickbank.net"><img title="coversmall" src="http://themagicofmaking-up.info/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/coversmall-150x150.jpg" mce_src="http://themagicofmaking-up.info/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/coversmall-150x150.jpg" alt="coversmall" width="96" height="96" /></a><span style="font-weight: bold;">T 'Dub's' simple, down to earth step by step plan on </span><a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://millhhaus.makingup.hop.clickbank.net">how to get your ex back</a><span style="font-weight: bold;">.</span><br /><br />Find out how on what to do when <a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://themagicofmaking-up.info/im-still-in-love-my-ex-may-not-be/">I'm still in love my ex may not be.</a><br /></pre>Sarah Johnsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09920562391878410962noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3483858672122380124.post-90927972939655063792009-08-05T23:24:00.000-07:002009-08-05T23:29:10.681-07:003 Effective Flirting Techniques For the Suddenly Single Man<span style="font-family: georgia;">Want to know e<span style="font-weight: bold;">ffective flirting techniques</span> to attract women? Flirting is a common form of social interaction where one person indicated a romantic or sexual interest towards another. So, during a social interaction will use flirting techniques to entice and attract women. Here are three effective techniques for the <span style="font-weight: bold;">suddenly single man:</span></span><br /><br /><span style="font-family: georgia;"><span style="font-weight: bold;">1. - Confidence:</span> This is one of the most effective techniques for the <span style="font-weight: bold;">suddenly single man</span>. A man that exudes self-assurance and confidence will be attractive wherever he goes.There is a difference between confidence and arrogance. Confidence is shown in the way he walks, dresses and talks. Arrogance is not showing interest in anyone but yourself. 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Looking across the room at a woman is one of the strongest indicators of attraction, which you can then follow up with a friendly smile.</span><br /><br /><span style="font-family: georgia;">There are many flirting techniques that are effective <span style="font-weight: bold;">for the suddenly single man</span>. Other techniques that can be used but the most effective and is the most attractive is by being yourself. Being genuine may be the only thing you need to attract a women.</span><br /><br /><span style="font-family: georgia;">Throughout this article I have outlined three <a target="_blank" title="effective flirting techniques for the suddenly single man" href="http://themagicofmaking-up.info">effective flirting techniques for the suddenly single man</a>. Follow these steps and I am sure this will turn out for the best for you. For a great get your ex back guide go to: => http://themagicofmaking-up.info</span>Sarah Johnsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09920562391878410962noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3483858672122380124.post-30088648771771403292009-08-05T04:18:00.000-07:002009-08-05T17:22:39.717-07:00How to Get Your Ex Back - 3 Fast and Effective Tips<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgkNaiWBOFSnb2b4x9gj5QDh6L2KElcNpeWN90GTld1rRKVqWtZOZwQoLIX6w-4dlyAvyM7sBfX49YAFJl3Bjjos8LVTZEGhtNDFrrAxPGUboKAto7gk0qPyIGmepbb5ApMDm5ljljBXJ4/s1600-h/coversmall.jpg"><img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 234px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgkNaiWBOFSnb2b4x9gj5QDh6L2KElcNpeWN90GTld1rRKVqWtZOZwQoLIX6w-4dlyAvyM7sBfX49YAFJl3Bjjos8LVTZEGhtNDFrrAxPGUboKAto7gk0qPyIGmepbb5ApMDm5ljljBXJ4/s320/coversmall.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5366639509150688530" border="0" /></a><br />When going through a break-up, you literally feel like your heart is breaking and all you want is to get your ex back.<br /><br />At the time it's hard to consider that such intense feelings will ever go away, but these feelings can be healed. However, if you feel that you still love your ex, then it is likely that you are looking for tips on how to get your ex back.<br /><br />Make sure that what you decide to do to get your ex back becomes a clear plan of action.<br /><br />The following are three fast and effective tips.<br /><br />Three Tips On How To Get Your Ex Back - Your Action Plan:<br /><br />1. Make peace with the idea of the break-up.<br />Then work out what your part was in causing the relationship to end. Break-ups are never one-sided. Once you have discovered the root of the problem or problems that caused the relationship to end, then you can work out how to resolve and fix those problems.<br /><br />If it was something that you did to upset your ex, then he or she may have held that against you. Especially if you have repeatedly do the same thing in the relationship.<br /><br />2. Give your ex time time, and some space.<br />One of the best tips to get your ex back is to give your ex space after a break-up. If there is going to be any chance of reconciliation, then there first has to be a period of grieving and healing.<br /><br />If you are always trying to see your ex after the break-up, then this will only cause more damage and resentment, and getting the relationship back will become very difficult to do.<br /><br />Make sure that you do not have any contact, whether by phone, text, email or in person. A proven way to stop hurtful feelings and resentment is to break contact with them completely for awhile. Constantly calling or trying to see them can quickly become harassment, and will ruin your chances for getting them back.<br /><br />3. Be patient.<br />Allow you ex time to sort out their feelings - for both you and the relationship. If they are dating other people. that's ok.<br /><br />Don't take that personally. Just like you, they may also dread the idea of being alone, and they are just trying to move on.<br /><br />By being patient with your ex, over time they will realise how there were more good times than bad and that breaking up with you was a mistake.<br /><br />With these three tips on how to get your ex back, you have a great plan. Remember to not be overly eager, or needy, when your ex does eventually call.<br /><br />Ensure that you have sorted out all the problems you have if they ask you for a second chance at the relationship. When you work out what went wrong in the first place, and how you can fix that, then your relationship will be stronger than before.<br /><br />Ex partners will consider a rebound relationship or casual sex to get over you, and the relationship. Allow you ex time to explore these options.<br /><br />Getting your ex back isn't rocket science, but you do need to make sure that you are acting maturely when you are around them, or im=n any communication that you have with your ex.<br /><br />Until you personally look at the reasons for the break-up, and your part in it, you cannot move forward. By giving your ex time and space away from you will allow your ex time to realise they are better off with you, than without you.<br /><br />Just follow the three steps outlined in this article and you will be ok! All the best!<br /><br />Throughout this article I have outlined a three step process on <a href="http://themagicofmaking-up.info/">how to get your ex back</a>. Follow these steps and I am sure this will turn out for the best for you. For a great get your ex back guide go to: => http://themagicofmaking-up.infoSarah Johnsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09920562391878410962noreply@blogger.com0